Use of the Aneros
Which Aneros model is right for me? How do I know it’s the right size?
Despite differences in height, weight and other physical characteristics, the location of the prostate gland – 2 to 3 inches inside the anus – is the same in approximately 98% of all men. With an insertion length of approximately four inches, our Aneros massagers compensate for differences in physical dimensions.
That said, different models do have different girths. The larger size models are intended for men who are experienced with anal play. We do have general guidelines for what model might be best for a particular user. Check out the Buyer’s Guide here at aneros.com. Ultimately, this is a personal decision. People of all sizes and shapes from all over the world own different models, even multiple models, and preferences vary.
Is Aneros difficult to insert or use in any way?
Aneros massagers are extremely simple to use. With a liberal application of lubricant, and a relaxed and open state of mind, anyone can use it. Once inserted, your Aneros should feel quite comfortable. It is important for the user to relax and once accustomed to its presence, begin contractions. Attentiveness and patience are required to experience the full extent of pleasure that the Aneros provides.
How should it be inserted? Which way is the front?
Aneros massagers, when inserted, should tilt forward. The curled arm (handle) should fit between the buttocks, and the upturned arm should touch the perineum, which is between the anus and the scrotum.
What exactly does “hands-free” mean?
“Hands-free” means exactly that — your Aneros massager is controlled only by the contractions of the man’s rectal muscles. The patented design takes the body’s contractions and transfers them into a pivoting action which stimulates the prostate, perineum and anal canal simultaneously without any manual intervention. This means that a man can use the Aneros solo or during traditional intercourse as well.
Should I use lubricant with the Aneros? If so, what kind?
Yes, lubricant should be used with Aneros massagers. We recommend water-based as opposed to petroleum-based lubricants, and we advise against the use of heating or warming oils due to the sensitive nature of the tissues inside the rectum. Our Aneros Sessions and Aneros Marksman water-based lubricants work very well with the entire Aneros line of products.
Proper use of lubricant is very important for several reasons: ease of insertion, overall comfort during use, and proper functioning of your Aneros. Both the rectum and your Aneros should be well-lubricated so that the massager glides inside easily and is able to move freely throughout the massage. Insufficient lubrication could also cause discomfort. If this results, discontinue use or remove and reapply lubricant.
How should I clean the Aneros?
Your Aneros can be easily cleaned with warm, soapy water. We recommend cleaning your Aneros before and after every session.
What is the best position for using the Aneros?
Based upon our research and reports from other customers, a side-lying position is most effective. Lie down on your right side (for some reason people seem to prefer right over left) and pull your left knee up towards your waist. Both legs should be bent, with the left more so. It’s a very easy and comfortable position to assume. The same position can be done while lying on the left side. However, some experimentation may be required in order to find what is most effective for you. Explore to discover what you like best. As a side note, ESO: Extending Sexual Orgasm, by Brauer & Brauer is a very good reference for information and illustrations.
How often should I use the Aneros?
Though it is fairly common to use your Aneros massager for an hour or more, we suggest using the Aneros 2 to 3 times per week for up to 30 minutes per session. Usage time may vary per individual, but the device must be properly lubricated for comfort and effectiveness. Extended usage times may require extra lubricant or re-application of lubricant. Most importantly: if the Aneros becomes uncomfortable, discontinue use immediately.
Is it possible to use the Aneros too much?
Because the device is operated using the contractions of the sphincter muscle rather than outside force, it is virtually impossible to injure yourself when properly using the Aneros. If you become tired or uncomfortable, experience muscle fatigue, or experience other discomfort, discontinue use until a later time. Remember, when using your Aneros, through the rectal contractions you are actually exercising your PC sphincter muscles. Like other muscles, they can get fatigued.
How soon will I get results?
This varies per individual. Some people experience multiple orgasms during their first session; others may need several sessions before achieving an orgasm. The reasons for this variation seem to be related to the physical and mental receptiveness of the user. One thing is certain, however: practice makes perfect. The quality and quantity of sensations may build up slowly, but this gradual arousal is part of what allows for such extremely pleasurable climaxes. Practice also builds up the strength of your PC sphincter muscle. The stronger the muscle, the greater control you will have over your Aneros. The more you use your Aneros, the better and more dramatic the results.
What is a “Super Orgasm?”
The term “Super Orgasm,” or “Super-O,” was coined by an expert user of the Aneros. “Super-O” refers to the multiple, non-ejaculatory, full body orgasms that are possible with the Aneros. These orgasms are completely different than traditional orgasms. Because these orgasms are non-ejaculatory, there is no refractory or recovery period that men go through before they can have sex again after traditional intercourse or penile masturbation. This means that men can have “multiple” orgasms, one after another, that are seemingly continuous when using the Aneros.
How about the “Super Orgasm” … How soon will I be able to have one of these?
The answer to this question is similar to the question “How soon will I see results?” For some, the ability to have Super-Os happens immediately during their first session. For others, it can take more time – from a few months to even a year or more. Sometimes all it takes is a position change to trigger a Super-O and sometimes, just a subtle shift.
Others may go down a path of self-discovery in order to attain a Super-O. This is what some users have called the “Journey to the Super-O.” Each session with the Aneros results in a better understanding of the man’s own body and how much pleasure is tied to the body and mind working together. We’ve been told by some men who have gone down this path that reaching the Super-O itself wouldn’t have had the same personal meaning had they not gone through this learning process.
There is no “book” to achieving a Super-O. We wish there were. What we have learned is that there are many moving variables in effect on the path to the Super-O. What is generally agreed upon is that much depends on the ability to relax while doing the anal contractions. This can be difficult because the path to the Super-O is so different than reaching a traditional penile orgasm. For a traditional penile orgasm, the man pushes and pushes toward the goal of ejaculation. Pushing harder (thrusting faster) can speed up the process. Relaxation often only occurs after ejaculation. In contrast, pushing harder actually can impede a Super-O.
How do I order?
You can order online using our secure online form. We accept Mastercard, Visa, American Express and Discover. We also accept PayPal.
Orders can also be placed over the phone with a member of our Support Team. Please feel free to call us at 713-680-8840 between the hours of 9AM and 5PM CST, Monday – Friday.
Is it safe to use my credit card?
Yes. We use Secure Sockets Layering (SSL) to encrypt your personal information, including credit card number, when you place an online order. Our secure certificate is provided by GeoTrust, one of the leading information security providers in the world. When accessing a secure server, the first characters of the site address will change from “http” to “https.” Also, you should see an unbroken key or a closed lock (depending on your browser) which indicates that the connection is secure. Because we use SSL, placing an order online at aneros.com is as safe as giving your credit card number over the phone.
Will my name be added to a mailing list?
We do not share your personal information, including your e-mail address, with other parties. We hate spam as much as you, so we won’t give your information to anyone. You will only receive emails if you have signed up to be on the Aneros mailing list, which we often use to send out Special Offers.
About the Aneros
What is the Aneros Stimulator?
Aneros Prostate Stimulators (also known as prostate massagers and Male G-Spot simulators) are the most amazing sex toys for men available! The Aneros is medically researched, designed and patented. Specifically, the Aneros is designed in accordance with modern scientific knowledge of anatomy combined with ancient Oriental awareness of erogenous zones and pleasure centers. The Aneros Stimulator pleases all of your neglected erogenous zones at once. Once the Aneros is inserted, it naturally seeks out the prostate gland (the Male G-Spot) while the perineum abutment gently massages the acupressure spot related to the pudendal nerves. This plexus of nerves is largely responsible for distributing sensations of pleasure throughout the uro-genital area
What is the handle used for?
The curled arm (handle) should fit between the buttocks, and the upturned arm should touch the perineum, which is between the anus and the scrotum to facilitate an external massage of the perineum acupressure point.
The handle is used only for inserting and removing your Aneros. Remember, Aneros massagers are hands-free, so while using yours, we recommend that the handle not be used.
What is the Aneros made out of?
The Aneros is made of non-porous FDA approved materials. The materials are approved for both body and fluid contact.
How long will my Aneros last?
The solid design and construction of all Aneros models will provide years of pleasure.
When will my order be shipped?
Orders are shipped the next business day. FedEx Express orders received before 9AM CST are shipped the same day, excluding weekends and holidays.
When will I receive my order?
ETAs are provided during checkout. All shipping and delivery dates are business days only (no weekends or holidays).
How will my order be packaged?
We ship orders discreetly in standard brown packaging. Generic boxes and standard FedEx “Paks” and “Envelopes.”
Do I have to sign for my order?
Our standard shipping is Priority Mail or First Class Package via USPS and does not require a signature. Your package can be left in your mailbox or at your front door. Express Mail International parcels require a signature upon delivery.
Aneros assumes no responsibility for lost shipments.
Do you ship internationally?
Yes, we ship to any country served by registered air mail service who receive packages from the US.
How long do international orders take to arrive?
International orders will be shipped via DHL Express and have an ETA of 5-7 business days. This does not include any time the package spends in Customs undergoing Clearance.
Please be advised, the Customer is responsible for any additional duties or taxes imposed on imported goods by Customs.
How much is shipping?
The shipping fees will be dependent on your location. During checkout, you will be able to select a shipping method from an array of options.
All international orders ship for a flat rate of $35.
Will I receive shipping confirmation?
If an email address is provided with your order, a confirmation email, containing a tracking number, will be sent by the next business day.
Please be advised, delivery dates are estimated.
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Where can I discuss my experiences with my Aneros?
Please visit our Forum and share your experiences with others. You may also want to create a Blog to keep a journal of your experiences.
Can I substitute items in the special sets?
As we offer special pricing for pre-packaged sets, we do not allow substitutions.
I still have questions!!??
No problem! You can submit your questions to us via our “Contact Us” page or send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org. You can also reach our team by phone at 713-680-8840, 9AM-5PM CST, Monday – Friday.